Why Parents Don?t Obey Themselves?
This arises from the situation of your studies. If you do very well then they will love you beyond any other thing. But if somehow you do poor, then you are surely gonna be In trouble.
Yeh!! This is the life. And the truth as well about parents. They always compare you with there neighbor?s children.
I tell you. If you do excellent in your studies then they will show you as a masterpiece to them and if you do poor then you are gonna be the touched your nerve. Every time they will say you, ?those batra?s son got 90% in maths, physics, chemistry and biology.?
The point of obey themselves comes here.
Our dear parents say that you must not listen to anybody. Concentrate on your work. Don?t feel inferiority complex and bla . . . bla . . . bla . . . they don?t even understand that we do feel inferiority complex, but not because of Batra?s son, but because of our own parents. Cause they compare us, they compare our eligibility, our mind, our luck, our labour and what rests is deep depression and gradually decreasing performance of ours.
Moreover, our parents say that you must not tell lie. But then they themselves say us to tell lie to their unwanted guests.
What we learn from this?
We learn that whenever we are in some sort of unwanted trouble or situation then the so called lie can help us out. And then a naughty but simple, truthful child comes in the arena of lie, hatred, uneasiness with people, castism, fake popularity, hunger for money and all those evil things which no child would ever have known if the parents would not have told him or her to tell a simple, small, bit of lie.
There is a very popular saying?
?The largest eucalyptus tree also take birth from a simple, small bit of seed.?
So next time, your parents scold or blame you for your lies, abuses and mischievousness then try to find out that last memory which could tell you the origin of your this state.
Don?t learn from your parent, teachers, friends, gods, famous people, stars.
But do learn from yourselves.
**What you wish to do will be right until unless you think that is right.**